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One of the most respected and beloved members of the Brookdale Public Radio crew passed away over the weekend. We have set up this page for our listeners to leave comments remembering our friend, Dave Mac. Below is the obituary written by Dave’s brother Duncan:

He was born in New York City and graduated the University of Indiana at Bloomington. He was a radio personality on Sirius Satellite Radio where he was known as Dave Mac. Dave hosted shows on The Spectrum, Sirius Blues and Sirius Disorder channels. There will be a tribute to Dave on the Sirius website and also on air starting on January 10. For many years, Dave also hosted Brookdale Community College’s 90.5 FM “Box of Blues”. Until recently, he was musical director for “Jody Joseph and the Average Joes” band.

He is survived by his parents, Leon A. and Patricia D. McNamara, his fiancée Rita C. Truex and his brothers, Duncan McNamara of San Carlos, CA, and Malcolm McNamara.

Visiting hours will be Thursday, January 11, from 6 to 8 PM, at the John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Avenue, Red Bank, NJ. A memorial Mass will be held on Friday, January 12, at 10:30 AM at the Church of the Nativity, 180 Ridge Road, Fair Haven, NJ. Burial services will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in David’s memory may be directed to the American Cancer Society or Radio Station WBJB, Brookdale Community College.

We have posted a few pictures of Dave on our Flickr.com account.

Here’s is some video of Dave interviewing the VooDUDES in the Fall of 2001. Thanks to BTV for the footage:

Here are some samples of a Writers In The Raw Dave did on May 12, 2004 at Harry Roadhouse in Asbury Park, NJ

“Save Me” | “In A World of Silver & Gold” | “Simple Things” | “Shadow of Love”

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64 Responses to “Remembering Dave Mac”

I can’t really describe how much I respect Dave. I always valued his insight. He was one of the most articulate, smart, and talented people I’ve ever met. I will always remember him for everything he did for me, for the station, and the listeners.

Dave was a gentleman, and a gentle man. His even temper and good humor never failed to lift my spirits around the station, and his humility and openness spoke to the depth of his character. I shall miss him greatly.

Wow…I’m stunned by this news. Makes me feel awful that I didn’t keep in better touch with Dave over the years (even though I often heard him on 90.5 the night). Back in the late 90’s Dave & I were both part-time DJs at a rock radio station, and Dave was one of the only people there who I actually enjoyed talking to. He was a really great guy, and a huge fan of the blues (as obviously all of you know). I am truly shocked by his untimely passing. The world will be a little bluer without you Dave…

I’m a radio guy who never knew Dave, but as a Sirus listener, really admired his on-air work from the first day I heard him, and he convinced me that I had wisely spent my money to become a Sirius subscriber.

He was blessed with a great voice, but his skills went far beyond that. It was easy to tell that he really believed in the music he was showcasing, and had a unique way of connecting with the listener.

I will really miss hearing him.

“…and, oh yea. We love to rock.”

Nuff said. Adios bro.

It’s not easy to describe how much Dave meant to me, 90.5 The NIGHT, or - obviously - his 90.5 and Sirius listeners. Dave was one of a rare breed, a radio guy that was also a musician, someone that worked “the other side of the mic” as a record promotions guy, and most importantly a music FAN. I first got to know Dave back in the days when I was a specialty show host (The Underground on FM106.3 for more Sunday nights than I can remember), Dave would be one of the guys that would call and badger me about records. Then, years later, it was Dave (along with Mike Sauter) who suggested to the folks at 90.5 The NIGHT that they contact me about doing a night here and there. That quickly turned into me being the Music Director and mid-day host. Over these last few years Dave engineered almost every one of the interview/performances we had on the air. And he made them sound better than the rest of us would have believed possible. Every one of the artists that wandered into our little studio was amazed at how good they sounded when it was all done.
All of this just scratches the surface of what Dave did for and meant to us at 90.5 The NIGHT. Even though he was only on the air one night a week, he has left an indelible mark on all of us at Brookdale Public Radio.

In one of the on air promotions for Box of Blues Dave says we like the blues because it’s “real”. That’s probably as good a word to describe Dave as I can think of. I answered phones for Dave during the fund drives and found him to be kind, honest, thoughtful, and committed to the music. Over the years we both had losses in our lives and we spoke of how each and every day that we had was important. He lived his life being in the moment and getting the maximum enjoyment out of each day. His time on earth was too short but he lived every day he had to its fullest.

Dave, my “Real” buddy, you’ll be missed…

Dave Mac was the best DJ, and recording engineer I ever heard.

I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He’ll be missed.

My family and I enjoyed Dave’s format and selection of music. Most importantly lessons learned by his presentation of the BLUES.

The station is a great source for my kids (5,7,9) who enjoy all the formats from Blue Grass to Progressive to Blues. Dave was certainly an important part of the influence your station has.

Our best to his family and the station crew.

Keep it going.

Such a shame…only the good die young. Peace Dave…and oh yeah we LOVE to rock as well.

Thanks for all.

Bob

Sad to hear the news of the departure of the great Dave Mac. He made his mark on progressive alternative radio and he will be missed!

I’m glad we crossed paths on this journey through time. I look forward to crossing his path again.

T
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D

I’ve been a long time listener to WBJB, actually I stumbled across it just after it came on the air in the seventies. The on-air personalities are what make a radio station, no matter what the format and Dave is among those personalities that kept me tuned in all these years. I will miss him. Thanks for all the good listening, Dave.
Thanks to WBJB for recognizing his talent. My condolences to his friends and family.
Peace.

The best way I can describe Dave would be to say that he was the most ethical person I ever met in this business. He truly believed in doing the right thing, all of the time. Hunter S. Thompson once said:“The music business is a cruel and shallow money trench, a long plastic hallway where thieves and pimps run free. There’s also a negative side.” Dave never fell victim to that side of the record / radio business. He stayed above the slime. Because of that, I trusted his judgement on more than just radio.

We worked together in the record promotion business; up at Sirius and now here on 90.5 The NIGHT. Last spring, on very short notice, he even played at my dad’s funeral. He was truly a very good friend, and like his promo for the Box of Blues show said, he was real.

Dave was one of the few people I’ve met that really ‘got’ music on a deeper level. I respected him professionally and personally. His on-air personality, voice, and everything he did were true and genuine. We’ll miss him.

Dave was a great musician and an even better DJ. His voice was one of the most recognizable at WBJB and the blues will never sound the same without him. Even though he only wrote an article or two for us, we’ll always remember him as part of the Upstage Magazine family. Rest in peace Dave, you will be missed…

This is such a shock.

I’ll always remember Dave behind the mixing board at WBJB when artists were performing live on the air. After the visiting musicians gathered up their gear and departed, I would complement him on the great sound of the broadcast and he would explain some little touch or production trick he would use to make it the best possible sonic experience for listeners.

He loved music, but he also loved radio and the shared joy of sending tunes out on the airwaves.

In my last email from Dave (from too long ago), he signed off with “Life is good. I have nothing to complain about, which is nice.” It was good to hear but also amusing, since he was rarely a complainer and always seemed to find the good in life.

He was a special human being and he will be missed.

Really shocked and saddened to hear about Dave.

The quality of his life will always be reflected in his superb talents as DJ, engineer, musician, and all-around nice guy.

Thank you, Dave.

I had the pleasure of sharing the stage with Dave for almost 4 years with Jody Joseph and the Average Joes, and my day job left me right near a radio on Sunday nights as well, so I got to witness Dave’s genius on both levels nearly every weekend. His passion for music was apparent on stages across New Jersey, in the studio engineering Jody’s recordings, and behind the mic whenever he possibly could. A rare breed with conviction and humor, Dave will be missed by myself and our extended musical family. My deepest regrets to Dave’s family and Rita. It will be my honor to ensure his musical legacy lives on. Peace to you brother.
Huey
Jody Joseph and the Average Joes

I knew Dave in his Bloomington days, first as a guy who played cool music on WTTS and then as a volunteer DJ here at WFHB. He was also the manager of the late, great Bill Wilson, who I hope he is up there jamming with right now. After Dave left Bloomington he kept in touch, both working records and keeping up with our development as an eclectic non-comm FM station. His advice along the way was invaluable and I always enjoyed seeing him at conferences. Such a shock that such a great guy go down before his time. It’s obvious that many, many will miss him but his spirit will live on in all of us.

After reading all of the rememberances of Dave Mac I must say that I did not know the real Dave Mac.I have been a program host for quite some time with WBJB and have known Dave Mac since he started with the station. My contact with him at the station was limited because I only did one program each week and would only have the chance to see him if he came in on a Sunday to do voice tracking for the Box of Blues,etc. In reading all of your remeberances of Dave Mac I am very much impressed as to the type of person that he was. To recapture some of the remeerances of Dave Mac: He was articulate, smart, talented as a radio station personality, musician and producer, even tempered, good humored, open minded, a real great guy, huge fan of the blues, unique way of connecting with the listener, a rare breed, a music fan, kind, honest, ethical just to mention a few. Yes I new Dave Mac as a friend and the host of the Box of Blues, but I did not know the REAL Dave Mac, however thorugh your rememberances of him I got to know him a lot better. Thanks Dave Mac for all othe the great Blues programs. I used to call him from the road and make requests. He got a kick out of that. Such a tremednous loss for us all. My thought and prayers go out to his family and friends. May he rest in Peace. His rememberance will be in our hearts forever. AMEN. OH YEAH WE LOVE TO ROCK!!!!!!!!

I am saddened by the passing of my friend, Dave Mac. As Jody Joseph’s personal assistant, I had the opportunity to work with Dave when he played with her and the Average Joes. He always astounded me with his musical abilities. He had a great sense of humor.
I enjoyed listening to his Sunday night show on 90.5 TheNight. We used to joke about how difficult it was for me to hear the show down in Highlands (because of the hill blocking the radiowaves). I would drive around on Sunday night just so I could listen to the show.
One of my fondest memories was the summer of 2004 when the band played at Riverside Gardens on July 20th. Jody brought a cake to celebrate our birthdays-mine on the 20th and Dave’s the 21st. What a great night!
Thanks for being in my life Dave!
Now you are in Rock ‘n Roll Heaven. Rock on!
Love,
Loey

I cannot believe that Dave Mac is gone… such a young vibrant person. He is definitely too soon gone.

Dave was such a great guy. I knew him from seeing the band he was in, and from e-mailing him about his shows at Sirius and at Brookdale Public Radio. He would always write back and answer questions about the music… and take it a bit further… he took the time to give you a bit of a musical education in the bargain. Especially when it came to the Blues. It was great listening to him on Sirius, and his Blues Show on public radio that I especially loved… knowing how much he genuinely loved what he was doing, loved the music, and even had firsthand knowledge of it from playing the Blues himself. His enthusiasm and knowlege, and his great personality, made for such great radio.

I remember when his Aunt died and he mentioned on the air that she had been the person who formed the Neuropathy Association. I e-mailed him and told him all about how much her association had helped a friend and also a family member of mine… and I told him that I sent a contribution to the NA in her name. He sent me back the most wonderfully heartfelt letter. He was so proud of what she had done, and how it had made so much of a difference in people’s lives. Said he wished that he had made that kind of a difference in other people’s lives.

I once mentioned that I used to perform years back, and missed that aspect of music so much. That resulted in some interesting e-mail conversations about being a performer. And without even knowing it… Mac helped me come to terms with a few issues I had about performing and music… with his insights on the ups and downs the music business. In that regard, he really did make a difference in my life. And I’m sure he made a great difference in the lives of everyone he touched. He seemed to be that kind of a person.

What I really remember most about Mac was his great sense of humor. He had such a great sense of irony… loved the ridiculous as well as the sublime. And we certainly talked about some ridiculous bizarre things regarding the music business. He seemed to see the humor in everything… and some of his quips made me laugh like hell. He was very talented, but never showed any arrogance or went on an ego trip about anything from what I heard or read… even about interviewing the Rolling Stones. It all seemed like one great big adventure to him from the way he wrote about things. So refreshing. He was one of those rare breed of people who was a joy to know on any level.

Through e-mailing back and forth, I came to think of him as a great spirit, a person with real heart, real soul. I thought of him as someone who was one of THE most clever, witty, and funny people that I’ve ever known in my lifetime. Not kidding. And that’s saying a lot.

If he could make that kind of an impression on me just via e-mails… I can only imagine how much he was loved, admired, and respected by the people close to him. What a deep sorrowful loss they must be feeling right now. My most sincere condolences to all who knew him and loved him. My heart goes out to all of you… especially his fiance and his family.

Mac’s going to be playing some REALLY lofty gigs now. Mike McCready’s got nothing on him. Now Mac can jump as high as he wants… and never break a leg… because he’s got WINGS, baby!

And I know one thing for certain.

He’ll definitely be keeping God, and the Angels, smiling…

Listener Rose
NY

This is tragic news. Our condolences to Dave’s family and to his colleagues at the station. We’ve been “Box of Blues” fans for years and had the pleasure of meeting Dave on a couple of occasions. He helped us select a guitar for our kids, and because of Dave, they’re now blues fans too. Rest in peace, Dave.
Mary Ellen and Nick Landolfi

I am also shocked and saddened by the news yesterday. I first met Dave at the Hard Report, and we became friends and sometimes co-workers since then. My son listened to him on Sirius, and I have many fond and fun memories of our times together. He was totally invested in the music, and its’ recording, broadcasting, and promotion.

Several years ago, I represented a recording duo who were invited to do many, many on-air performances as they traveled the country. At each station, they were mostly unhappy with their performance or the sound of the recording, or something. It was quite predictable and annoying to hear their comments on their visits. One of them was at WBJB, where they did not approve the live recordings. At the station’s request, they returned to the studio to re-cut something for a CD, and Dave was brought in to engineer the session. As you can imagine, it went great, they loved the sound, and a song appeared on the station’s benefit CD. All thanks to Dave’s skills and help.

A true music fan, totally great guy of integrity, and solid friend who will be missed but not forgotten.

Thanks to WBJB for this forum to remember Dave.

“Box of Blues” was one of the reasons that I started listening to The Night. His intelligent and insightful commentary and pure love of music will be missed. My condolences to his family and all that were close to him.

I am profoundly sad to think that Dave is no longer with us. Mere words don’t seem nearly enough to describe what a special person he was.

He was a great man, more genuine than anyone I have ever worked with. I’ll always remember his insight, advice, wit and friendship. For me, Dave was a trusted ear. Not just for how he listened, but for how he heard.

I admired how he could take everything in stride and look at the positive. In fact, I can’t remember a single negative thing he ever said. Not one.

Dave was a brilliant jock, a terrific broadcaster and a beautiful soul. And I’m a better person for having known him.

I have worked with Dave since he came to Brookdale Public Radio, and brought “Box of Blues” to the next level. He was a regular visitor to the studio on Sundays, and I always made sure to put on some long playing songs so that we could talk. He had a great perspective on life, and it was always uplifting to talk with him.

Brookdale Public Radio was my first experience in radio. Whenever I managed to knock the station off the air, (and it happened far too often)Dave very calmly walked into the studio, and got us up and running again. I always had lots of questions, and he would always stay and answer every one of them. He gave me great advice, which I still follow to this day.

Being a public radio station, we count on our listeners becoming members, and supporting our musical efforts in a financial way. I was reminded during the last member drive about how much Dave “got” what public radio is all about. He really knew what makes public radio different, and was able to convey that over the air. He had the ability to draw the listener in, and made us want to be a part of the member community. I made a mental note to ask him to join me on Bluegrass Jam during the fall member drive this year, so that he could share his understanding about public radio with my listeners, so they could “get it” too.

Sadly, I won’t have that opportunity. But isn’t it always the case when we lose someone who is a great person? We aren’t sorry for them that they are gone, because they are certainly in a much better place. We are sorry for ourselves, because now we realize the gem that they were, and how there will now be a huge void in our lives since they won’t be in it any more. Right now I’m feeling very sorry for myself, knowing that my Sunday conversations with Dave are over. I’m also sorry for everyone else who was touched by him, who will be missing everyting that Dave brought into their lives. For me he was a mentor, a colleague and a friend. Here are the lyrics from one of my favorite hymns:

Who will Sing For Me?

Oft I sing for my friends
As death’s cold form I see
When I reach my journey’s end
Who will sing for me?

I wonder who will sing for me?
When I come to cross the silent sea
Who will sing for me?

When friends gather round
And look down on me
Will they turn and walk away
Or will they sing for me?

I wonder who will sing for me?
When I come to cross the silent sea
Who will sing for me?
So I’ll sing until the end

And cheerful try to be
Assured that some friend
Will sing one song for me.

I wonder who will sing for me?
When I come to cross the silent sea
Who will sing for me?

I will Dave.

Heidi

It saddens me to hear the passing of Dave. I’ve known him through Jody Joseph since he joined the Joes several years ago. He was always a quick witted, kind person.
My fondest memory of Dave has to be about 4 and a half years ago. My mother had just passed away and at the time, Springsteen had released a new album and was debuting it at the Stone Pony. I’m a huge Bruce fan which Dave was well aware of, but because of my obligations I was not able to attend. At the end of a very long day, I received a 10 minute voicemail from Dave. He had been at the Pony that night and knew I could not be there. So,he brought the Pony to me…by holding up his cell phone as one of the songs played through I was able to be there via cell phone. I don’t remember the song, but I will never forget the gift of comfort he brought by that act. It is for this as well as many other reasons that I will miss him.

Beautiful thoughts and prayers are with his family during this sad time.

I’m stunned, even slightly lifeless after reading the news just minutes ago of Dave’s passing. I’ve dealt with a boatload of death in the past 16 months, and just when I thought there’d be a slight break, more sadness. I haven’t seen Dave since my days at Sirius, where his smile, hello and chit-chat would always be welcomed on those evenings when I was working way too late, and Dave was just starting his voice work! But I did think of him from time to time, knowing he was working his ass off, doing what he loved to do. Dave will truly be missed by all that worked with him and those who loved him….a special prayer goes out to his family, loved ones and close friends :)

I did not know Dave that well but our paths crossed many times over the years and I always respected him as a true believer, a real music lover.

I am stunned that he has been taken so soon and offer my deepest condolences to his friends and family for their loss.

I’ll play some blues for you today Dave, may you rest in peace.

Mike Marrone

Dave was a rare bird in the music industry. He loved what he did and he loved music, even beyond the blues and it showed in every radio show he hosted. It showed in the life he lived. I had the pleasure of working the phone lines for several fundraisers for WBJB, and had the chance to talk with him and some of the other DJs. He was one of those whose presence I probably took for granted, assuming that he would always be there on the air. I will miss him.
steve/Manasquan and now, Morrisville, PA.

I only knew Dave through his ‘Box of Blues’ show. What set him apart from other Blues shows that I had heard locally or on the web was the way he worked in old Led Zep, Hendrix, etc., and while some ‘blues prudes’ may have not considered this music pure blues, Dave did and we all benefited from this. He had a passion for the blues and it came through every week. I bought more blues albums since he came on the air that I ever had before (I’m over 50). I also became a regular supporter of BJB because of his show.

I’ll miss hearing the new music he introduced me to every week but I will also miss the great enthusiasm and passion he brought to Box of Blues.

Rest in peace Dave and enjoys the jams with Jimi, Muddy, Luther, etal.

I am filled with sadness to learn of Dave’s passing. I first met Dave when I worked at Righteous Babe Records. We hired Dave to help promote Ani DiFranco’s music to radio. Dave’s approach, his ethics and his values represented what was important to Ani and everyone at Righteous Babe Records. He was truly part of our team and he is responsible for turning a lot of people onto Ani’s music.

Dave was the voice of the underdog. He believed that good music should be played on radio regardless of what label the artist may or may not have been on. He was inspired by the artists he promoted and we were inspired by him.

Radio Promotion is a shitty business filled with a lot of creeps. Dave was an exception. He was a good guy and he stood apart from his peers. He never made promotion seem like work.

I had been out of touch with Dave for the last couple of years. I followed his work in radio from afar. His colleagues in radio thought he was one of the best. I agree. He was more than just a good voice. He knew about the music he plahyed and that came across on the air.

You will be missed Dave Mac. I never had a chance to say it so I’m saying it now “Thanks for your guidance and friendship. I am grateful to have known you and I am filled with respect for you.”

Sean O’Connell

Dave, r.i.p. you will be missed on box of blues.

Already posted… but I said something to my best friend last night and she told me I should post it… that Dave’s parents would probably like to read it. She asked me why I was so very deeply affected by Mac’s death, and I told her. If I’d ever had a male child, I would have wanted him to be like Mac. That’s how much I thought of him. In all my decades on this planet, I’ve only said that about two people. I told Mac who the other person was(a female)… I’m just sorry I never told him I felt the same way about him too. Learn the lesson.. never put off saying things like that to someone… you may never get the chance to.

Mac once told me of a beach near his house that he used to like to go to when I told him I’d always wanted to live near the water and really loved some of the Jersey beaches… as I recall it was a state Park. I forget the name… I know I wrote it down somewhere, but can’t find it. If anyone knows where that is, would they please e-mail it to me… I’m going to the church service for Dave, and while I’m in NJ I would like to go and walk on that particular beach after the service. Thanks. Radiohcate@aol.com

Box of Blues was the reason I became a member of WBJB. If Dave’s love and knowledge of music wasn’t enough, guitar school took it over the top for me. I looked forward to Sunday nights. My wife and child asleep, I’d get my guitar ready, and listen intently to the music and Dave’s great voice telling me all the things I wanted to know about the Blues, while I waited for my lesson at 11:00. I met Dave for the first time while answering phones during a membership drive, and was bowled over by his warm and sincere greeting. He was the same every time we met. Now that he’s gone, it seems I learned more than a few licks and some Blues history - he eminated sincerity. There are plenty of folks who can play guitar, and tell you about the Blues, just not that many as real as Dave. With deep sympathy to his family and friends and to everyone who will miss him. -Jim

I am an original member of the average joes, and I am besides myself over the loss of Dave. It was because of Dave”s professionality that made the band what it is today. Keep on rockin brother and may peace be with you. Steve

Dave Mac was my bandmate, my teacher, and my friend. It cuts me like a knife to think he’s not here anymore. It is always sad when the music comes to an end. We shared the stage a good 300 nights together. I hope wherever he is he has a guitar in his hand. I’ll never forget Dave. I’ll miss him forever. We shared the joy of music, and we didn’t always see eye to eye, but we always shared one common goal: to make the best music we could. And at the end of the night, there was always a handshake and “a job well done”. Rest in peace my brother. See ya on the other side. Rock on Dave Mac.

I was lucky enough to have worked with Dave and I got to see and appreciate his musical genious at work. He was a great person and a beautiful guitar player. He used the guitar and his effects in a way that I’ve never heard before. He will be missed by me and all of the joes. He was definitely a “way more than” average joe!

I’ve known Dave since the late 70’s. Whether playing football in Eastside Park in Red Bank, Jammin’ in Jeff’s basement, or just hangin’ out, Dave was always fun to be around. All these years later, this can still be said. For me, however, the greatest thing about Dave was that he made my sister Rita happy. For that Dave, you will always be my brother.

Bob Connor

I loved Dave Mac. As anyone who knew Dave, I am devastated by his passing. It was a profound privilege to have Dave for a friend and he was a better friend to me than anyone I’ve ever known. Dave & I first bonded over our love for Springsteen, so I feel I should say good-bye with a quote from the Boss:

Seven days, seven candles
in my window lighting
your way. Your favorite record’s
on the turntable, I drop the
needle and pray.

My sincere & deepest condolences to his family & friends.

I am simply a listener who was shocked to hear of Dave’s death… I had been listening for him and wondering where he was… he was much better than any other DJ on air… smarter, clever, witty, thoughtful, funny, and he played great music… the man did his job very well, indeed. God Bless You, Dave.

I met Dave only once under the saddest of circumstances–the funeral of a mutual and dear friend, Marion, Rita’s sister. Dave was the only one willing (or sober enough) to drive me from Far Rockaway to Port Authority. It was a Sunday in July, the traffic was hellacious. We spent close to 4 hours in the car, virtual strangers bonded by loss and our grief for the Connor family. In that brief time, I was overcome by Dave’s kindness, generosity, insight, and humor. All of your above beautiful testimonials confirm it. People like Dave are rare, and we are blessed when we can claim to have known them, if only for a few bittersweet hours in a car.

My deepest condolences to all who knew him, and my tears for you, dearest Rita, runneth over

I never knew Dave personally but I did enjoy his broadcasts and just wanted to say that due to his visions and choices of music, I learned much about musical forms such as the blues and jazz as well as other compositional music important to just about every musician I know. He will be missed.
John Pfeiffer
The Aquarian Weekly

Dave taght me alot about my music…
In a way he helped me develop and become more like myself when I was on stage with the band. He was an amazing guitar player, and an even more amazing person to be around. He was truley a spectacular artist…
I know I will miss him dearly…
~peace and madd love~

How fast can a person become your good friend? With Dave it was instantaneous. You felt good while talking with him. And looked forward to catching up with him soon. Dave is my newest of friends and mentor. He helped me navigate the music industry that can be anything but artist friendly. He was funny. You know? Sharp with wit and an understated demeanor that exuded calmness. You just couldn’t help but want to be around him. I know he was a great help to everyone who asked for it. I am a furtunate soul to have known him. Thanks for calling…What took you so long. :-)

As I sit here tonight, I can’t imagine not picking up the phone and calling him. Dave has been a very powerful person in my life. Stubborn, smart, compassionate, giving, dry sense of humor and a great teacher.There are so many memories of him lingering around my home I can’t begin to tell.
I had a wonderful gift handed to me by spending some amazing moments with him in the hospital and rehab. Really getting to know Rita and her bro and witnessing their support and love it was beautiful. Those memories are probably the most valuable to me.
I would like to share some of the lyrics to one of the many songs Dave and wrote together…I believe in my heart he is at peace…

HE’S CALLING ME NOW
HE CALLS ME BY MY NAME
I CAN’T BELIEVE HE KNOWS ME
AND THINKS I’M WORTHY TO SAVE
HE SAID IT’S TIME FOR A CHANGE

HE’S SAID THERE’S TWO PATHS AHEAD
ON THIS JOURNEY TO EARTHS END
ONE IS GONNA STEAL YOUR SOUL
THE OTHER’S GONNA BRING YOU HOME
HE SAID IT’S TIME FOR A CHANGE
TIME FOR A CHANGE
HE CALLED ME BY MY NAME
AND SAID IT’S TIME FOR A CHANGE…

He called you home…
Love ya, miss ya…
j

The Sunday night voice of the blues will be surely missed with the passing of Dave. His passionate delivery and true love of the music sounded every Sunday night through my car speakers as I left the Rajin’ Cajun. Dave never failed in his promotion of the local blues bands and musicians. He played our CDs unsolicited and always followed up with positive comments. Every time we met he had that smile on his face and a genuine interest in the music. Dave “lived the life he loved and loved the life he lived”.

Peace be with you Dave, you made a difference.

Victor Bayers
Drummer
Sonny Kenn/Stringbean & The Stalkers

I never met the man, and I was just a fan of Box of Blues, but he will be sorely missed. He had one of my favorite radio voices, smooth and mellow. I always laughed at his Box of Blues ad when he said “real” about 10 times.
Heartfelt condolences from our family to his and to his radio family as well.

I was Dave’s guitar student since I was 12 years old. I was a weird little kid, but he didn’t mind. In fact, he liked it. You see, he wasn’t like anyone else, either. Our lessons always went overtime,because we would talk about, well, everything.He encouraged me to be myself.I loved him.

Here’s something funny: I was in one of Jody Joseph’s recitals,a Christmas show. He arranged the song for me, and played guitar with me.He was supposed to play a little solo during the song. At rehearsal, he joked,”Now,don’t ruin my moment.” Well, during the show, something went wrong, and Dave missed his part. So he mutters”Sh*T!!” under his breath,while I have to continue singing this sweet little Christmas song.Afterwards, he said, “I f***ed up.” I was 12 years old, and thought it was hilarious. He never treated me like a kid.

He was always really busy, but he took the time to come to a show I did at school.He was always interested in everything I did. He went backstage to encourage me, and the kids all thought he was my father. No, just my teacher. And my friend.

Last night, I looked through his notes on our lessons. At one point, he was teaching me with the book “Mel Bay’s Modern Guitar Method.” I remember him showing me his own old book, and how his guitar teacher signed the certificate at the back of the book. He promised me that when I was done, he would sign the certificate for me,too.We both kind of laughed at that.But I guess we both got too busy, and he never did. I really wish I had that, now.

Anyway, I know that Dave cared about me. I just hope that he knows how much I cared about him.

When thinking of Dave, I need to make reference to the fact that I am a drummer, and we both shared the same philosophy all drummers embrace: if it’s gonna rock, it’s gotta groove! However, it was not only this mantra, but Dave’s infectious ehthusisam and magical ear which always energized my love for drums/music, taking my passion to another level. His ability to bring out one’s best, both on stage and in the studio, was unique. The electricity of his playing, the subtleties of his nuances, his goal of taking the music to a higher,more spiritual place…he truly was a visionary.

And a very special friend. Moody at times, and tenacious with what he believed (he was not shy about letting you know it, either!), Dave Mac whisked you up into his daily pursuit of excellence, bettering and enriching the lives of those around him. He had the ability to make you “stop and smell the roses”, to help you re-think much of what we accept as status quo, and challege everyone to not take anything for granted. Whether he was patiently explaining a complex concept, or simply lending a helping hand with the band equipment, Dave gave us his all, unconditionally.

I was so fortunate to spend countles hours on and off stage with Dave during the last year and a half. His presence will always be missed, but at the same time, he’s always with each and every one of us. From every song he wrote/co-wrote, to every riff he magically pulled from the heavens, and generously showered upon us through his bevy of guitars…Dave Mac remains alive within our ears, our memories, and our hearts.

Dave, whenever The Joes perform, I know I’ll be glancing over at stage right, envisioning the famous “Dave Mac guitar compound” (as we liked to joke), and there you will be, axe in hand. The master colorist, sharing your talents and that boyish, knock-me-down-if-you-can grin. And mouthing the words I always loved to hear, “just groove,dude, just groove”.

- Right back at ya, Dave.

JR

JR

I loved listening to him on Sirius…his voice was relaxing and inspiring all at one time, particularly in this over-stimulating world we now live in. Prayers to him, his family and friends.
Thank you.

There was one Sunday not to long ago that whenever I switched stations I heard Dave Mac’s voice and heard some great music. I was thinking thats the way radio should be. Rock on Dave , wherever you are. - Devoted listener

There you stood on the edge of your feather,expecting to fly. While I laughed,I wondered whether, I could wave goodbye,knowin’ that you’d gone.

Blue, blue windows behind the stars,
yellow moon on the rise,big birds flying across the sky,throwing shadows on our eyes, Leave us…

bye Dave

I’m 12 and a couple years ago I heard Dave do a show and he told me some stuff about learning to play guitar. He was also a great person. I learned to like blues music because of Dave Mac.

Simply the best air personality and dj that I’ve ever known and listened to…we’ll sorely miss him.

Oh no. Just logged on to find the news. Never met the man, but I feel like I lost a friend, because I knew his voice so well.
As the rabbis tell us, the memory of the righteous is a blessing.
Dan

Mac was the quintessiential Renissance Man who has taught all of us something, somewhere along the way. Making each of us most fortunate for the gift of crossing his path. What an amazing place the world would be if everyone acted like Mac 2 min. a day?
To all of his listners that never had the chance to “meet” him..he couldn’t wait to get back on the air. We will always have the music he played us for the 1st time and the ‘new’ ears he taught us to use on the old tunes.
To his family, Rita, her family, and Dave’s friends….I have never met a cooler group of people…You All ROCK!! I’m quite certain he’s got the band up and running and by now “the master communicator” is masterminding some sort of broadcasting system. If anyone could figure it out, he’s the man. Would love to hear if anyone starts having ‘MacMoments’, and to see if there are any corrolations with others. (Humor me..it could be interesting)astralh2ogirl@hotmail.com

Dave, I still have not figured out when you slept, but after meeting your family and friends I can understand why you didn’t waste a minute. You kicked ass in a million different ways to each and every one of us. Thank you for daring us to dream, helping us fly, making us believe…
hil

We’ll miss Dave and the voice so often heard on BJB. Had the best time with him when he brought our band to the station in October, 2001 and hosted the video/radio program. A gentleman and friend from the minute we met. God bless Dave, his family and friends.
Gary
(from the VooDUDES)

not sure where to start about Dave. he taught me almost everything i know about how to put on a live show and how to be a live musician. how to be a musician in general. he taught me how to not give up in the studio, even when we’re on take #1,586!!! (fight or flight man!) but i will always wonder whether twinkies still taste the same, and i will never forget “Bear, the deer.” i miss the late night/early morning drives home. even ALL the coffee stops. you never stopped lookin out for me dave, and i know you never will. peace man.

WOW, I don’t know what to say…I just found out through the website that Dave passed away. I never knew Dave or met him, but he sure loved what he did and you (the listener) knew it. I always looked forward to Monday (then Sunday) nights…knowing Dave Mac & Box of Blues would be on the air! He is surely missed by a lot of folks. Rest in peace, my friend.

I am deeply saddened, shocked, and angry at myself to only find out now that a great man has passed. I wish I could have attended the services. Rest in Peace bluesman.

js

Here it is July 2nd, and I’ve only just learned that my friend Dave Mac is gone. It makes me so sad that we’d fallen out of touch like this. We always meant to get together in New York and check out some music together, whenever I got my butt down out of the hill country, but I never did…
So now instead, I am sitting here in shock, with tears on my face, remembering the first time I ever heard Dave Mac’s voice.
I was the new Program Director at WLPW back in the 90’s and it was my first day of “Music Calls”. I knew virtually nothing about being a Program Director, but I’d done a pretty good job of winging it up until that point. Unfortunately, I was in no way prepared for the onslaught involved in a typical Monday Music Day (yeeks!) In the midst of the choas, Dave Mac called. I don’t remember exactly how it started, but the first 5 minutes of the phone call all we did was laugh and I didn’t even know who I was talking to! But that clinched it. We were friends in that instant and we stayed friends through the rest of brief but interesting radio career (and long after I left that job and left the business. )
I can’t even begin to tell you how much he helped me. He was a tremendous source of support, and encouragement, and advice while I struggled to learn my job at the station. He showed me the ropes (and how to pull them) and more than once came to my rescue when found myself either in over my head, or beating it against a some hard immovable object!. When the shit hit the fan…I called Dave. He’d listen to me vent then he’d say “Let me make a phone call”…
I began to call him my Jaded Guardian Angel and we joked about that nickname for years.

I will miss very, very much. I miss him that much already.
He was terrific person, a dear friend, a true professional and about as passionate a music fan as can be found on the planet.
and, he had a great voice!!!

Peace to you my friend!
My Jaded Guardian Angel

Kitty Patnode

Hi again
click here for my tribute to my friend Dave:

http://360.yahoo.com/gertrude575
or
http://www.myspace.com/kitricia

Thanks,
Kitty

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